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The little deck behind our house is pretty much unusable in summer. It gets sunlight from dawn to dusk, no shade whatsoever. It's like standing in a blast furnace out there. I wanted to remedy this, and so Darwin and I went shopping.

At a large hardware store chain, we found a deck umbrella that turned and tilted. We got it home, but of course it was "some assembly required." I'm awful at this stuff, and I knew if we waited for Darwin to do it, we'd never have an umbrella. So I got on TaskRabbit and arranged for someone to come over and do it for us. Two guys showed up and in a trice had it all set up.

We also shopped for a barbecue grill. We had one two homes ago, but got rid of it when we moved to the condo--no grills allowed on second-floor balconies. Now that we're in a full-sized house again, I felt the loss. Still, our deck is quite small, and all the grills we saw were huge. Even the small ones were enormous. And expensive! 

Finally, we went to another big box hardware store, and there I found a tabletop grill. It was perfect! It's just the two of us, after all. I also pointed out that we could take it to campgrounds. It was also way cheaper.

We bought a small table for it to sit on and got everything home. The table, it turned out, needed a fair amount of assembly, and it wasn't easy. As usually happens, the directions weren't always clear, and we got some of the parts on the wrong way around, requiring us to take it apart and try again. But we finally got it done.

Additionally, I'd done my usual version of gardening, which involves buying potted flowers and setting them outside. Just for fun, I also got a couple of potted tomato plants to see what happened.

Now we have a usable deck! The umbrella shades everything nicely and--bonus--keeps direct sunlight from flooding the dining room through the sliding glass door. The flowers give some color and greenery, and the grill is ready to go. I tested it today on some kielbasa. It worked great!

The summer has begun.

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I haven't blogged much lately, though lots has been happening. It's like that spoon analogy. I only have so many spoons every day to lift stuff with, and by the time I think about updating this blog, I don't have any spoons left.

I'm the administrator of my brother Paul's estate. It's not a job I ever thought I'd have. It's certainly not one I want. But it must be done, and I'm the person in our family who is closest to Oakland County, where Paul lived. The job requires multiple trips to the courthouse, you see. So many forms, so many little jobs, so many people and businesses to talk to. It's daunting and draining and it's a continual reminder that my brother died. This takes up a lot of spoons.

I decided early on that I would do One Thing Per Day. That'll hopefully prevent me from burning out. Sometimes I break that rule, but mainly it lets me be okay for not plowing through every single thing that I =could= do on a given day. It lets me give myself a break.

This job isn't a labor of love. It's a labor of grief.

In the meantime, we have The Short Version of what's going on right now:

--My seniors have taken their exams already. They're done with school! This means I only teach one class of freshmen per day. (!) This makes my life easier in so many ways, as you might imagine, especially since I have all this estate stuff to handle now.

--On the day the seniors came in to pick up their caps and gowns, a large group of young men who I swear hated me--they seemed to delight in making class difficult--stampeded into my classroom wearing their gowns and booming, "We're gonna miss you, Mr. Piziks!" "This was my favorite class!" "I'll never forget you!" and such, and I was thinking, "Then why did you make life so difficult for me?" It's the way many teenagers shows affection, I suppose. It was both strange and uplifting.

--I did Paul's taxes. I was secretly hoping it would only take an hour or so. It took five, and basically wiped out an entire Saturday. The experience left me drained and exhausted.

--The results of my cancer biopsy came back. The cancerous lesion hasn't moved or grown since last time, so I don't need treatment. Additionally, the oncologist decided my risk of problems was so low that I was demoted to seeing the physician's assistant now. So ... yay!!

--The results of my latest kidney stone x-ray came back. When they showed up in my patient portal, the physician reading the x-ray reported "multiple" stones 4mm or larger on both sides. This freaked me out. Six months ago, I had two tiny stones, and that was it. So I was terrified I'd need more of the treatments that sent me to a therapist. But when I met with my urologist, he said he disagreed with the reading. "I don't know what he was looking at," he said, "but I only see the same two small stones you had before. Nothing's changed, and these stones aren't going to cause problems anytime soon. See you in six months." So ... yay!!

--After Paul's funeral and before my biopsy, I took a getaway weekend to Cleveland for a change of scene and to settle myself with some alone time. Why Cleveland? I overnighted there in order to fly out for my Hawaii trip last February, and said to myself, "This place looks pretty interesting. I should come back and explore it a little more." So I did. I biked some trails and slept late and visited the most amazing food market and bought the most amazing food and generally did my best to unwind. It was a nice trip, and I'm glad I went.

--I finally started writing again. It was difficult, honestly. I felt like I had forgotten how, and kept putting it off. But finally I did. I wrote more of the fantasy novel my Dear Agent is marketing samples for and surprised myself by finishing more than two thousand words in one sitting. I've also started an SF short story because I've decided to renew my campaign to get into the Big Three--F&SF, Asimov's, and Analog. I've gotten a lot better at short stories recently. They're more powerful and punchier now than my earlier work. I think it's a function of age and experience. It's nice to know I haven't peaked as a writer yet.

Life moves forward.



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 My brother Paul Piziks died yesterday. It was the worst kind of shock. He was the youngest, and he went first, even before our mom. The world isn't supposed to work this way. I'm functioning on fumes. I never knew I could cry so much.

Paul was famous for his outside-the-box creativity and his sharp, sardonic sense of humor. He loved doing standup comedy, and was brilliant at it. He and I were strangely at odds with our jobs--he worked at some point in nearly every facet of advertising, and I work hard to inoculate my students against ads. But Paul was always happy to give me insider information about how the advertising industry works.

I feel like I should write more about him, but the bond runs so deep that it's difficult to put into words. One of my earliest memories is of my parents bringing him home from the hospital. He and my sister Bethany Piziks and I were a trio, and we have so many shared memories and experiences that no one else in the world can understand. Now only two of us are left.

He was alive Friday. His funeral is Wednesday. I'm sure he'd have a devastatingly witty joke about this, but right now, it's just devastating.

Diana Rivis

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My dear friend Diana Rivis passed away on December 27. It was a sharp blow. She had a number of health issues and was getting on, as we like to say, but still. I have a hard time understanding that she's gone. Her passing has left a hole in the world.

Diana was born in 1950 and saw quite a lot in her life. She looked like a harmless little grandma who would happily serve you cookies and pizza rolls (and she did), but every now and then she'd drop something about her life on you like an anvil. "When I was sharing an apartment with a drag queen, we used to ... " "At that time, I was working box office for the porn theater and ... " "Oh, this original sketch by [enormously famous artist]? I got that back in the seventies from a former lover who ... " "I won't be at group this week--I'm in Cancun with my friends," all delivered with cheerful honesty. She attended my and Darwin's wedding, and when a raucous game of Cards Against Humanity broke out, she joined right in.

She joined the Untitled Writers Group several years ago, and in no time at all, she was hosting meetings. Ironically, she joined just after I moved away from Ypsilanti--her house was only a couple blocks away from my old one. She wrote both fantasy and science fiction and was working on an urban fantasy novel when she died. 

Her health started to decline in recent years. She was in and out of the hospital. I gave her the occasional ride and was one of her network of helpers with her cats. She had cats who stayed inside and two semi-feral outdoor cats she set up heated shelters and a feeding station for. (The cats are being cared for.) 

Diana hosted the most recent live meeting of the UWG, happy that her health had improved to the point where she could do it. When the meeting ended and the team cleaning up was finished, I gave Diana a hug, kissed her on the temple, and said, "Love you, darlin'." "I love you, too," she replied.

It was the last time we spoke.



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Yule, Christmas, and New Year's were quiet this year, thanks to Covid. Although both Darwin and I were cleared of the virus before January 31, neither of us felt like making an effort at this point, so New Year's Eve was just the two of us at home. We nibbled on lots of snacks (including cheesecake with homemade cherry topping), watched NO TIME TO DIE, and smooched it up at midnight. It was nicely quiet.

Today, New Year's Day, was Undecorate Day. I always insist on putting everything away on New Year's Day because everyone has the day off and we're all usually tired of the decorations by then anyway. I put on anti-Christmas music (Lady Gaga, THE GREATEST SHOW, Fallout Boy) and we set to work. Darwin grumbled that it was going to take forever, but we've scaled way back in our decorating and putting it all away took less than an hour. 

And the new year has arrived!

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 Today Darwin and I revved up the Yuletide season, the first one in our new house! I baked a pile of piragi for our family gathering next weekend (including ones filled with Nutella and ones filled with raspberry, as well as the traditional ham) and some banana bread just because I could. Then we put up the tree and strewed the living room with lights and decorations. Afterward, thanks to the magic of streaming, we decided to watch SANTA CLAUS IS COMING TO TOWN ("Put one foot in front of the other, and soon you are walkin' 'cross the floo-ooo-ooor!') and the George C. Scott version of A CHRISTMAS CAROL, which is the best one, in our opinion. It was a cozy day!




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This post is a bit late, but whatchagonnado?

My brother Paul and his partner Becky wanted to have a Thanksgiving that combined our family and hers, and they suggested we all meet at Zehnder's Restaurant up in Frankenmuth. The rest of us were amenable, so off we went!

Frankenmuth is a tourist town in mid-Michigan. The town was deliberately designed with a fairy-tale Bavaria theme. Lots of gingerbread architecture, a water park, Bronner's (a mall-sized store that sells nothing but Christmas stuff), lots and lots of shops, and two major restaurants: the Bavarian Inn and Zehnder's. The latter is most well-known for its family-style chicken dinners, and it serves hundreds and hundreds of them every day. Thanksgiving, of course, is their biggest day of the year.

Paul made reservations, and on Thursday Darwin and I drove up. The weather was amazing warm--50s and breezy--totally not the usual dreary Michigan autumn day! The parking lot at Zehnder's, which rivals those of many shopping malls, was packed, and it took us some time to find parking. Zehnder's itself is HUGE and covers two floors that include multiple banquet halls. The large lobby, which uses queue mazes like an amusement park, was stuffed with people.

We found Paul and Becky right off, and later the rest of the crew arrived. I met Becky's parents, two sons, and daughter, and I was a little startled to learn that my mother and Becky's mother were already well-acquainted. The reservation lady quickly led us to one of the downstairs banquet halls, where a long table was already laid for us.

Zehnder's, you have to understand, is a machine. You sit down, and the process begins. The server does a head count of the people who want dinner (turkey today) and a few minutes later, the food arrives on large platters you pass around the table. Empty plates and platters are whisked away and replaced with full ones, if you want more. It's a good place for Thanksgiving because they're used to big groups and can handle whatever you throw at them.

We talked and ate and ate and talked. It was very convivial and enjoyable. And when it was done, there was no cleanup!

After many good-byes, we drove home, and I continued prep for Thanksgiving II: The Gobbling.

See, on Friday we were having over the boys (who couldn't go to Frankenmuth), and for Darwin's side of the family. I'd already prepped the white potatoes and sweet potatoes, made stuffing from scratch, and baked pies and piragi. Now I had to brine the turkey.

I decided this year to try a dry brine, instead of bath of salt water. This basically meant smearing a mixture of kosher salt, a bit of sugar, and some herbs onto the turkey skin and setting in the garage overnight. It's less messy than wet brining, and would be easier to carve--wet-brined turkey exudes a LOT of juice and makes a big carving mess. This didn't take long, really, which was nice.

I'm experienced at Thanksgiving now, so my stress levels were a lot lower. We were also "only" having about eight people over instead of the usual twenty-some, which brought the stress even lower!

Friday morning, I stuffed the turkey, set it in the oven, and got to work on the rest of the food. Here I discovered a small tactical error--my gas stove cooks a LOT faster than any of the electric stoves I've had, and I miscalculated how long it would take to make the stove-top dishes. The potatoes and carrots were done FAST. Fortunately, my serving stuff is all heated, so everything could stay warm until everyone arrived.

And they did. Max and Aran and Shane and Mary and Noah and Fred (a close friend of Shane). Noah terrorized the cats and rushed about shrieking his excitement at visiting his grandpas until we got him to stop. I co-opted him into the kitchen as my assistant, which gave him a nice distraction. We ate and talked and ate and talked. And then everyone headed out.

Darwin and I cleaned up, and order was restored to the kitchen. It was a lovely holiday!
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The day before a long weekend, a lot of teachers go for a more low-key day, partly because we're as tired as the students, and partly because absence rates are really high and you don't want to teach something new, only to have to re-teach it for all the students who missed it.

So I ran a low-key day. My seniors were great. We did some reviewing of previous material with online games, listened to a radio version of the book we're reading, and did some drawing of literary scenes. It was very relaxed and fun. Then my ninth graders showed up. They were monsters all class, some of the worst behavior I've seen all year. Immature and bad decisions that bordered on malicious. I was really upset with them, and it was a sucky way to end what had, until then, been a really nice day. I was glad to see the class end.

I have sixth hour prep, and normally I would have ducked out early, but we had a Gay/Straight Alliance meeting after school (we meet every other Wednesday, and this was an "other" Wednesday), so I had not only to stay, but stay late. I thought the meeting would be dead, with maybe three or four students, but we had a full house. All the active members came! I was a little mystified at this--didn't everyone want to get out for the long weekend?--but then I remembered how high schoolers see it.

To a teacher, an after-school meeting is work, and it's much the same as running a class (though the students are better-behaved). More work is the last thing you want on a Friday or the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. But the students see a group meeting as fun time. It's social time and time to unwind with friends. It's the kind of thinking that eventually leads to Happy Hour when they're adults. 

The meeting went very nicely, and it was good to get the taste of my freshmen's bad behavior out of my mouth, but as the time for the meeting to end drew near, a lot of them were lingering. Under normal circumstances, I'd've let them, but today I wanted to go home, so I gently shooed them out the door.

By the time I got to the parking lot, it was nearly 3:30, and on the way home, I got caught in the "I'm sneaking out early today" traffic, so it took a LONG time to get home. I was late, in fact, for my online counseling session, but was able to hook up with the therapist anyway.

In the end, it was after 6:00 before I got any downtime. I should have gone for a run, but I said screw it and slacked off.

But the day wasn't done yet. Thanksgiving prep had to begin...

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For Thanksgiving this year, my brother Paul really wanted to have the feast at a restaurant, specifically Zehnder's in Frankenmuth, and include the family of his lady friend Becky. The rest of us were amenable, so Paul made the reservation. You would think I'd be saying, "Hey! A no-muss, no-fuss Thanksgiving!" 

Not quite.

First of all, The Boys wouldn't be able to go. Max and Aran have to work, could make it to Frankenmuth and back in time. Aran is usually Sasha's transportation. And Darwin's son Shane wouldn't know much of anyone well. Ditto for our grandson Noah and his mother Mary.

So we're having a second Thanksgiving at our place on Friday.

I started prep when I got home from work today. (See the previous entry.) My energy level was low, and it took some time to get myself moving, but I did.

First up was prepping home-made macaroni and cheese. I got part-way into it and discovered I didn't have evaporated milk. I asked Darwin, who was curled up with his iPad, if he would run out and get some. He was reluctant ("I'm all comfortable") until I pointed out that I was cooking an entire Thanksgiving dinner by myself, and if he wanted to eat any of it, he needed to get his butt moving! So he did.

While he was gone, I got the stuffing ready. (No a brand name, thanks--I rough-cut stale bread, drench it in butter, broth, sauteed onions, and herbs and mix it all together with my hands.) Then I peeled a huge pile of white and sweet potatoes and put them in cold water. When Darwin got back, I finished the mac and cheese. As I completed each item, it went into the garage to stay chilly until Friday.

After we get back from Frankenmuth on Thursday, I'll brine the turkey. I'm experimenting with a dry brine this year to see how it comes out. Basically, you coat the turkey in kosher salt and let it sit overnight, then roast as normal.

Then it was major clean-up time.

So a lot of the heavy lifting for Friday is done!

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After I moved away from the Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti area, I forgot about ... Game Days.

If you aren't a football fan (and I'm not), Game Days in the hometown of the University of Michigan are a strange combination of locking down and scurrying out.

See, the Big House (the local nickname for the UofM stadium) holds up to 114,000 people. Most of those 114,000 people come from out of town. This means most of those 114,000 people flood the local highways and roads. The entire day before the game begins, no one can go anywhere. The highways (and there are three of them--four if you count I-275) become parking lots. Every street within five miles of the Big House is backed up. I'm always amazed that anyone manages to get to the game at all.

And then all 114,000 of these people need a place to park. The lot at the stadium fills up a day beforehand (seriously--people actually CAMP OUT in the parking lot). All the street parking within a mile of the stadium becomes engorged. The people who live near the Big House make a cottage industry of charging people to park on their front lawns. PARK HERE! shout the home-made signs. $100 FOR THE DAY! And people pay it. The high schools rent out their parking lots and shuttle buses ferry people to the game. The local supermarkets don't get in on this action, but their lots are full anyway--fans park for free at Kroger or Meijer, then try to get an Uber or Lyft driver to the stadium. If you work for either company, you want to be out there on Game Day.

Of course, all these people want to be fed. Every restaurant and bar in both towns is packed to the gills on Game Day. The takeout places are stacked with orders. Between demand and clogged streets, a pizza delivery won't arrive for at least three hours.

We non-fans keep an eye on Game Day, too. We have calendars and red-ink reminders: GAME DAY! DON'T FORGET! and MY GOD, WATCH OUT FOR GAME DAY! This isn't because we care about the game. We care about getting stuck. Before the game, we non-fans stay home, with the doors locked and the windows barred and the lights off. We huddle in the basement while the fans thunder through our city overhead. We don't make plans. We don't even venture outside. Instead, we wait. This is the lock down portion of Game Day, and it bites football cleats.

But then ... then ... the game begins. And a hush falls over the city. Everyone is in the Big House. The streets and highways are clear. Restaurants and bars and stores are empty. Ann Arbor and Ypsilanti become ghost towns. This is when we non-fans have our time. Like Morlocks at sunset, we creep outside and do anything we want! Eating! Shopping! Entertaining! We have THE WHOLE TOWN TO OURSELVES because everyone else is either at the game or watching it at home.

The cool part, though? All the retails places are fully staffed. They schedule all the workers for Game Day because they get slammed before the game. Then, during the game, the workers repair the damage and await the post-game second rush. So when we non-fans go into such places, we find a lot of staff who are just dying to wait on us. It's lovely! This is the scurry portion of Game Day.

Smart non-fans keep the game running on their cell phone or radio, not because we care about the game--again, we don't--but because we need to know how it's progressing. When the fourth quarter starts, the non-fans scurry back home and hide in the basement again, though now we're nicely fed and fully stocked. For three or four hours after the game, the streets and highways and bars and restaurants are clogged again, and we don't dare go anywhere. But we don't need to because we've already done what we need to do.

I lived in the Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti area for twenty years, and this was the circle of life. Every autumn, the air turns crisp, the leaves change colors, and Game Day looms over you. But then I moved away and was gone for nearly ten years. Now I'm back, but Game Day didn't make a blip on my radar.

As it happens, I eat lunch with a group of male teachers who talk about almost nothing but sports. It's dreadfully dull, and I usually pull out my phone and read when one of the guys says, "So how's that new pitcher for the Puxatawny Groundhogs doing?" I do keep an ear out in case someone brings up a different topic, which turned out to be a good thing. Today, one of them mentioned "The game against MSU," which is Michigan State University, to which another guy said, "Yeah, they might actually beat Michigan this year."

Michigan, of course, means University of Michigan. My old reflexes kicked in, and I came to attention. I interrupted. "Are they playing in Ann Arbor or Lansing?"

They looked at me like I was a space alien. "Ann Arbor," came the answer.

"Ah." I tried to keep it casual. "What time does the game start?"

"Seven."

I blinked. "Seven?"

"Yeah. It's a night game. We won't get home until two in the morning, and that's without the drinking, har har har."

Oh, crap. Usually games start at two or three, which means we non-fans only have to huddle inside until afternoon. A seven o'clock game means we stay inside ALL DAY LONG.

But at least I got warned. On Saturday, we'll be good little Morlocks and hide in our tunnels until it's safe.
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With my commute more than doubled, Darwin and I decided it was time to replace my car. The Escape is a nice car, and I like it. It's the perfect size, gets decent mileage, and is comfortable to drive. But "decent' mileage isn't good enough for a commute this long.

An electric car would have been ideal, but they're currently out of our price range, and the infrastructure for recharging up where I work is sketchy at best. A hybrid was the best choice.

Of course, this meant we were car shopping during the worst new car shortage in history, and at a time when EVERYONE wants a hybrid because gas prices have gone so high. (Side note: it continually amazes me that a drop in gas prices always leads to an increase in sales of full size trucks and SUVs. Do people really think that the low prices will last forever? Enjoy that $200 tank of gas!)

Really, I still wanted an Escape, and we learned there's a hybrid version. I contacted a number of Ford dealerships in the area and got the same answer: nothing in stock, but I could get put on the waiting list for the 2023 model, and might get one in January or February. Yeesh.

Then I got hold of one dealer who said that just an hour ago, he'd gotten an email from a woman who had ordered a 2022 Escape Titanium hybrid (the exact model I wanted) in January and now in July, she had gotten tired of waiting for it. Was I interested?

Yes. Yes, I was.

We didn't mess around. Darwin and I rushed down to the dealership and put down a deposit that same day. (Another side note: the dealership had NO cars on the lot. Zero. Nada. Zilch.) The dealer said the car would likely arrive in mid-August. Then it was late August. Then it was early September. Then it was, "The car is on a train and heading our way." Then it was, "The car is at a dealer one town over, and we're trying to get it here."

At last I got the call: the Escape has landed.

We got insanely lucky. If I hadn't called the dealer just when I had, someone else would have. A few minutes probably made the difference!

Darwin and I drove my nice little Escape to the dealer for the last time and I said good-bye. We found the new hybrid waiting for us.

The written description we had called it "metallic blue," so I thought it would be similar to my old Escape's bright blue. But, no. The new car is a kind of blue-black. In some lights, it takes on a green hue. I liked it.

We took the car for a test drive. Many upgrades to the onboard gadgetry. Good handling. SUN ROOF!

Darwin said he didn't like the old Escape because you could feel it shift gears. Darwin already has a hybrid, you see, and hybrids don't shift the same way as gas-only engines. You can't feel it. I thought my old Escape's shifting was perfectly smooth, but Darwin was used to no shift at all, and it's why he almost never drove the Escape. The new Escape also has seamless shifting, so Darwin is happy.

We returned to the dealership and said we wanted the car. Many signatures later, we had the keys. Or key fobs, anyway.

We took the long way home, stopped for supper at a restaurant, and drove a little more. I like this car very much, and I'm sure I'll like the gas savings even more!
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Dinah and Dora love their canned food. The routine is that I feed them when I get home from work, and they greet at the door: "Time for food! Time for food!" When I crack open the cat food can, Dora gets so excited, she runs laps around the kitchen island. On the weekends, they think they can get fed early--as in ten in the morning--and they bug me until I wave the spray bottle at them.

And then there was Friday.

(What follows is a little icky. You have been warned.)

When I went downstairs to work out, I found five lumpy puddles of cat diarrhea scattered about the carpet. Apparently, the cats had both gotten sick and had decided the litter box was the wrong place to handle it. Ohhhh, I was upset. We have an entire main floor with wood flooring, and they can't do it there. No, they have to choose the one area of the house that's completely carpeted. It took Darwin and me considerable time to clean it up.

Clearly, something in the wet food got to them. I don't know if it was one can, an entire batch, or something in their physiology changed, but it ultimately doesn't matter. No more canned food for the cats, ever again. And they have been banished from the basement entirely. Once cats have decided that another spot in the house is a good alternative to the litter box, it's almost impossible to break them of the idea. They'll have to be content with the main floor.

Of course, we have no way of explaining any of this to the cats, and I knew what was coming. Yesterday, they started the food demands. They don't actually yowl and prance around. Instead, they both get all lovey-dovey, like they're trying to flatter me into feeding them. ("You're so great. We can't help adoring you. Yes, you! So how about some food?") I responded with an immediate squirt from the water bottle. They retreated. A bit later, they were back at it. Another squirt, another retreat.

I expected this to last all day, but by four o'clock, they'd clearly given up. I handed out catnip as a recompense, and they were happy with that. Today, they haven't bugged me for canned food at all, though Dinah firmly pointed out that the hard food dish was empty. I refilled it.

I wonder if they themselves figured out that the canned food made them sick, and they don't want it anymore as a result.
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This evening after supper, Darwin and I decided to go for ice cream. Because we could.

The closest ice cream place to us is Go Ice Cream. It's a retro ice cream parlor, complete with counter and stools inside and spindly metal chairs outside. All the ice cream is made on site--the kitchen and its shiny equipment are visible through plate glass windows--and the selections rotate every week.

It's freakin' fantastic. The best ice cream I've ever had, anywhere.

Darwin and I took a pleasant 10-minute drive to downtown, where we easily found parking, and we strolled to Go Ice Cream. The summer air was soft, and other people were wandering about. The ice cream parlor is down an alley strung with lights, giving both a modern and a retro feel. I ordered Banana Brulee and Darwin got Three Bean Vanilla. We settled on a bench outside, enjoying the weather, the retro view, the ice cream, and each other's company. When we were done, we decided to buy a pint and a pair of GIC's huge ice cream sandwiches. It was a fine mini-date.

This is what I love about summer.


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A new house requires many trips to various stores. So much shopping!

One of the great things about this place is that it's close to both an At Home store. At Home is like KMart, but funky. The stock continually changes, and they always seem to have new stuff. Darwin and I love the place and they've shamelessly lured us in over and over. We found some wonderful rugs there that were exactly what we needed, and we've found bathroom mat sets and towel sets and bar stools for the kitchen island and a table with a shelf underneath that turned out to be perfect to hide cords for the sound system--and it had matching end tables. We've practically worn a trail to that place.

We've been spending money like water. But it has to be done, so I'm going to enjoy it. :)
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Now that we've been living in our new house for about a month, we've come to realize how wonderful this place is.

First, there's the house itself. Downsizing from a large house to a smaller condo taught Darwin and me that we aren't smaller place people. We like room to sprawl. Darwin says that rather than having shared spaces, he likes "dedicated spaces," meaning a space for office work, a space for food prep, a space for recreation, a space for exercise, and so on. There's a part of me that says a three-bedroom house with a finished basement is a waste of money and resources for two men with no kids at home, but another part of me likes having a big house.

So we like our big house. We have an office area separate from the bedroom. We--or I--have a huge kitchen with a gas stove (after thirty years, I finally have a gas stove again). We have a wonderful open concept conducive to entertaining.* We have a finished basement with plenty of room for the exercise machines. We have wood floors that are easier to keep clean than wall-to-wall carpeting. We have a first-floor laundry room. We have a garage.

And there's the location.

The house is on the outer corner of a subdivision. The subdivision is, unfortunately, one of those plastic, every house alike, no trees place. But we're on the edge, so we don't actually have to look at or drive through the plastic. There's also a border of trees on our back yard. Literally a block away, we have farmland and forest and dirt roads, which makes me insanely happy--I can ride my bike in the country again.

We're ten minutes away from downtown Ypsilanti. We're 13 minutes from downtown Ann Arbor. A major grocery store, hardware store, and big-box variety store are all within 5 minutes. And Cottage Inn Pizza delivers to our house.

We love this place quite a lot.



*I know current thinking in housing is to denigrate open concepts on the bounds that your kitchen is in your living room, and what about the smells and the mess when you have people over? My answer to that is, why are you cooking something that smells so awful, and why are you leaving a mess in the first place?
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Darwin has a new job! He's Village Manager for Stockbridge, Michigan.

Stockbridge hasn't had a manager in several years. When their last manager left, the village president said, "We don't need a manager. I can do the job!" and took over running the village. That was a couple-three presidents ago. The current village president and council didn't want to run the village this way anymore, so they started a search for a new manager.

Enter Darwin.

He started work on Thursday. As you might imagine, there's a lot to do! And the commute . . . it's more than an hour away from our home. Each way. It makes for an exhausting week. However, we're moving, and that's a different set of posts.

And congratulations to Darwin!
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The company Max works for gave all the employees a turkey just before Thanksgiving. As a young single man, Max had no idea what to do with it. And I'd already bought a turkey for the family Thanksgiving. He put it in his freezer, where it sat forlornly in the middle, the only object in there.

This week, I told him to bring it over. I thawed it in the refrigerator, then brined it overnight. I also chopped up a bunch of bread and seasoned it. Today, I stuffed the turkey and it's currently roasting in the oven. The plan is to eat whatever we want, then divide up the rest for freezing. Both households will get a pile of meat.

It's an unexpected turkey!

ETA

The unexpected turkey turned out deliciously. I also made mashed potatoes, gravy, butter-glazed carrots, and the stuffing. The house smelled like Thanksgiving. It was actually a bit odd--the prep and the smells put me in a Thanksgiving frame of mind, and I kept thinking that everyone would be here any minute. Then I would remember that they weren't, and I thought, "It's Thanksgiving dinner without the stress!"

At one point, I realized I didn't have any potatoes, so I popped out to get some. On the way, I somehow found myself stopping at a small local bakery for pączki, a Michigan treat you can only get in the days before Lent. I somehow found myself getting four of them, and I somehow found myself bringing them back home with the potatoes. Huh.

Max couldn't get here for dinner, but Darwin and I had a lovely dinner, with an epic cleanup afterward. I dissected the turkey carcass and bagged up the meat for freezing. Some will go to Max, and some will stay with us. (Darwin is, as we speak, already chowing on some.)

And then, instead of pie, we had pączki. And food comas.


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At about 3:00, I realized I hadn't eaten lunch. I asked Darwin what we wanted to do for supper, and this touched off our usual, elongated discussion. Eat at home? I didn't want to face a sandwich or a microwaved frozen meal. Restaurant, then. But which one? Darwin plumped for a local low-level diner. You know--the one whose entire menu comes from the back of a Gorden Food Services truck.  I didn't want.

There's a small, slightly upscale Italian restaurant right up the street from us. It's where Max took me for my birthday, in fact. I said we should order takeout from them. Darwin wasn't happy with the idea. "They have such a limited menu," he said.

I pulled up the menu online, and it was quite extensive. I read out some items I know he likes, and when I said they had chicken Parmesan, he agreed. Me, I ordered short ribs with roasted asparagus and an appetizer of sweet chili shrimp.

At the appointed time, Darwin popped out to pick it up. And everything was wonderful. The ribs were fork tender. Darwin's chicken was perfect. And the chili shrimp to die for. The diner has no idea!

So I'm going to be more forceful about restaurant choices!
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My birthday was earlier this week, and two people wanted to take me to dinner. :) My mother invited me up to a restaurant in Lapeer.  Darwin and I drove up there on Saturday, where we met my mother, her husband Gene, and my brother Paul. We had a very nice dinner and conversation that ranged from meeting Saudi princes to the inner workings of advertising corporations.

Today (Sunday), Max wanted to take me for dinner.  (He couldn't come up to Lapeer because he had to work.)  We went to a nearby Italian restaurant I like and had more conversation that ranged from first-time mortgage lending to impact of TikTok videos on the anime industry.

So it was a nice pair of dinners!
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We had a full slate of holiday activities planned this year, but along came a spider.  Or a virus.

Christmas Eve was meant to be Darwin's side of the family over at our place, close to twenty people.  Then we learned that a couple people in the family hadn't been vaccinated, and some other people had potentially been exposed to COVID. Several people expressed worry and concern, including us, and we reluctantly pulled the plug.  Darwin and I decided to spend Christmas Eve playing Santa Claus and Mother Berchte.  We drove around the Detroit Metro area delivering presents and holding distant conversations in driveways and on porches.  It was a pleasant way to spend the holiday, though not what we'd been expecting.  Darwin, I know, was especially disappointed.

Christmas Day was just Darwin and me.  We exchanged our own presents and enjoyed each other's company. Kala dropped by for lunch, and we had the roast that had originally been slated for Christmas Eve.  Roast beast!

The day after Christmas was for my side of the family at my mother's.  It was a small group, and we know everyone had been vaccinated and boosted.  I brought a carload of food and drinks, including home made carrot cake and ice cream and piragi.  Aran and Sasha drove up together, and it was wonderful to see them. Max couldn't come--he had to work. :( But it was a successful event, and no one came down with anything afterward, so hooray!

The next day, I had surgery . . .

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